IT IS A LONG ROAD.
Don’t step parent alone.
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A Stepmom’s Grief Series: Stages 3 & 4 – Anger and Bargaining
Becoming a stepmom can be overwhelming and painful, often triggering feelings of anger and denial. The author reflects on challenging emotions experienced during the grieving process tied to their new family dynamics. Despite struggles and shame, there is hope for healing and self-forgiveness through perseverance and self-compassion.
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Stepmom Grief Series: Stage 1 & 2 – Shock & Denial
This reflection details the emotional journey of becoming a stepmom and second wife, highlighting the unexpected challenges faced during the transition. Despite initial joy and careful planning, the author experienced intense grief and confusion as realities diverged from expectations. Ultimately, the piece emphasizes hope for improvement through support and time.
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Second Wife Series: When Exes Bash
My divorce with my ex was difficult and contentious, no doubt. But no matter how angry I was, how deeply I was hurt, or how bitter I felt, I had one rule: never bash him on social media or in front of the kids. For more than 10 years, I’ve followed that rule 90% of
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Second Wife Series: Jealousy is a Bitch
Jealousy is irrational, I know—but every Second Wife feels it at some point. So why be jealous? I mean, I got the guy in the end, right? He chose me, he loves me, we go to bed together and cuddle every night, and he married me. Yet, that damn green-eyed monster sneaks in more often
Stepmom Epiphanies 